The Four Keys of Success

During the First half of this Semester  I gotta do the hardest  Assignment  I have ever faced in my life –in fact, I could not even think of starting it ,One day sitting  on the edge of the bed I thought to myself –How on earth will I do this  ,as the laziness surrounded me , I sat on the computer and started fiddling around with Google and all of a sudden I came across an article :   .the heading of the article read ,

The four keys of Success

Then it read, Believe that you can do it,Work really hard,Focus your efforts and the last thing was :never give up

I can’t tell you how strong I felt after getting these 4 things into my head ,But it really gave me what I wanted I really found myself going from lowest to the  highest degree of my productivity. I started , though I got nervous on the first time , though I doubted myself , I could not believe how I progressed and I thought I should share this with someone.

Lets consider the first: Believe that you can do it,I know that this is a very old theory  ,some people argue that if you really can’t do something  your belief can’t  change your ability to present my opinion towards These 4 things I thought of making up a small story : a story about an ant.

In an urban city there was this red ant who dreamed of flying,one day this ant saw a crow shouting out on a window , then it saw how it flew out so freely in the air,So immediately this ant thought to him self I am going to fly I know I can do it if I work really hard towards it .From that day onwards He started to climb on that window everyday and As the crow start flying over the trees ,this small ant too jumps out, but eachtime  he just ends up falling down so hard,but at the end of the day he realizes that jumping out just don’t help him to fly by the next day he starts applying the 3rd aspect of what I said to his work which is:focusing your effort, Alright now this ant climbs up to the window and says to himself”I believed that I can fly, And I tried really hard to fly but I did not focus on my efforts right? Okay what should I do? He started thinking , and finally he gets an idea “Oh cheese I got an Idea , I can stick to crows body , , and then I might as well,  fly ‘ so then next time the crow came to the window it climbed on the wings, but as the crow started flying this ant gets thrown away by its wings.

Again he felt so sad, “Man, I have believed that I can do, I worked really hard, focused my efforts as well, but failed every time”

This ant start going in to a depression, but this ant did not know how to give up things , so he started thinking about ways he can stick on to the crows body without being thrown away but having no idea how to do it ,Finally he goes and present his problem to another black ant .And this black ant says”Cant you see the crows ‘got legs” you just stick on to them ,then definitely you might as well be flying“

So the Next time when this crow comes on to the window edge  he slowly gets on to the leg .Full of doubt, but as the crow starts flying over the window ,this ant realizes that he is flying as well.He feels the breeze over his shoulder, and gets overwhelmed with joy,And as he is flying he reflects back on how  he realized his dream, achieved his goal , faced the challenges of his Dream.

So as in the story, no matter who you are /where you from if you follow these 4 steps  ,you will definitely achieve your Dreams.

Believe that you can do it/Work really hard/Focus your efforts/ never give up.

When there is determination, but no time?

I have determination to start my assignment , I know that if i start it now definitely I would finish it soon. But hold still is there enough time ? Well there is not enough time if I  need to submit it tomorrow.(it depends on the work load you have ,the familiarity etc.anyway you cant do any thing overnight to make it good or put your full potential- lets agree to that now).

In the start of my semester I consciously stayed alone, I knew something was going on to make me happy , but I tried not to change my relationship status (its single from the beginning of time ) I know I came to a place where I stood firmly on my decision of making out with anyone until I complete my Academics .Yet going back, I can clearly see How I have wasted time thinking about the same thing and wasted my time until I was clearly stuck in assignments.I don’t know what is right? to be honest I thought staying single would help me to focus on my studies but the same thing had taken my focus away from studies. Music Love songs and all that surrounds me sometimes and I feel so lonely.

Loneliness by the way have its use. You could spend your time for self-development . I do not know what kind of self development it is, but actually is it not right ? Could any one change my perspective? I consciously choose to be single and again I suffer remembering her face, her talk and what not? this is contradictory some one somewhere will find an answer to this question, who am I ? This is what I need to know yet I firmly believe that everything has a time. And I am not in a state of finding a partner right now And therefore I need to focus on (heck!) studies.

I am gonna start studying now , starting it now finishing it today and sleeping tomorrow , thinking of her -later . So hopefully later would become never!

Its time for the moment you have been waiting for so long

You might been wondering “how could I possibly become great , Where could I start my journey for success ?” these questions have nothing to do with the perfect time , you have no such time as ‘perfect time’ yet there are things to create your perfect time its so simple .

You don’t have to wait for that, figure out what you have done regarding your last exam have you failed it? if the answer is yes then it is time to start thinking about how you should do in order to pass it . Get the paper you have in hand analyze how the marks are been awarded ,pin point how you could improve your answers .Start writing answers, do you think you are doing good or do you think you cannot really do it, then its time to start off with asking a good friend or any person who has the ability to do good.

What if I have passed the exam last time? yeah you could think how you studied for it. Get the attitude of “Yeah I have done it just good, without a big effort” that is the positive attitude you have to have, it does not say that you could do this exam as good as the last one without a considerable effort. That is just a stupid idea, But you could plant the idea in your head that nothing is getting worse, everything would be good as long as you start studying right now.

Oh too much crap about studies? yeah okay lets say that you have assignments due tomorrow, what could you do to complete it ?(For me , I have two assignments, normally this does not happen to a well organized person, but this is just me trying hard to understand several subjects related to computer science and to complete assignments .)

Give it a start and think that you are going to nail it by today!( What if you don’t have any idea what you are going to do next..Hmm that’s quite a problem).

You have several things in your mind at the same time. I now have a big problem as where to begin?yeah that’s quite right. I am gonna start it now as I start I would say ” Hey Nikko this is going to be the day you change your whole self just starting from today you will notice how good things gonna be, you would become great from the way you start working , the day everything is gonna fall in to its place and you will become the person you always wanted to be. Thats how things will work out, just by giving a start . Just start it now and hold it for some considerable amount of time , then you would notice that you have passed the hardest part of your studies you have gain control over what you have to do at the right time of your life. Keep faith in yourself. If you cant, put faith on whatever the religion you believe in then you would notice that you have taken a leap of faith. But before that just recite this with me .

Listen while you study!

“You’re waiting for a train. A train that will take you far away. You know where you hope this train will take you, but you don’t know for sure. But it doesn’t matter, because we’ll be together. “

This is to live life !

Memories Alive

How I picture myself. How I picture myself.

When we face a problem we get stressed and try to stay behind sometimes we tend to over-sleep,eat ,drink but these things are going to make it even worse.

All you have to do is just sit and try to find an answer to the question. But first thing you need to do :just plan on making one at a time.’one at a time’ means just clearing your mind from all the other work, shield it from rest of the work. And start from one simple thing that needs attention As you find one answer to it , you will find enough motivation for the next task at hand And just like a chain you go on making it one by one and finally you will complete it.

Be motivated enough to complete just one that’s all you need.Trust me,then you will find yourself doing more…

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How I picture myself.

How I picture myself.

When we face a problem we get stressed and try to stay behind sometimes we tend to over-sleep,eat ,drink but these things are going to make it even worse.

All you have to do is just sit and try to find an answer to the question. But first thing you need to do :just plan on making one at a time.’one at a time’ means just clearing your mind from all the other work, shield it from rest of the work. And start from one simple thing that needs attention As you find one answer to it , you will find enough motivation for the next task at hand And just like a chain you go on making it one by one and finally you will complete it.

Be motivated enough to complete just one that’s all you need.Trust me,then you will find yourself doing more and more meaningful work!

Do not listen to music that takes your attention away from the work you need to be doing.Music is great when you have time to listen to ,Some people could just listen and work together at the same time some does not have that ability .It depends on who the person you are, if you are good enough to handle both then you could do it.

Good Luck !

Nikko Stevens_Kage